Sunday, November 14, 2010

building relationships

In a world where human beings are running after materialistic objects, we need to stop, pause and think. Where will this Massive Rat Race lead us? Our destinations often seem to be blurred by our vision towards perfection and on the win or lose factor as if we are in some game being played in the sports field in school or national/international contests. The fact remains as to who are we competing against? How much can we satisfy our bodily needs through whatever we gain from this ‘tournament’? And even after we satisfy ourselves, are we REALLY happy??! We run after happiness seeking happiness in the fulfillment of earthly desires which give us only temporary contentment. In order to secure happiness totally, it is very important for us to realize as to who we actually are and in fact , WE are different from the materialistic bodies we inhabit.

The Bhagvad Gita says , “ As the embodied Soul continually passes in this body from boyhood , to youth, to old age, the soul similarly passes into another body at Death. A sober person is not bewildered by such a change.”
Somewhere , sometime I had come across an article in a newspaper which stated that scientifically speaking old cells in the body are replaced by new cells every seven years. What, does not change is one’s Consciousness. And that is……..the…….SOUL. This is further described in the Bhagvad Gita as follows:-
‘As the sun illuminates all in this universe, so does the soul , one within the body illuminate the entire body by consciousness.’

The complexities of life coupled with innumerable number of temptations belonging to the world of ‘Maya’ [make believe], keep us from establishing a direct communication with God. God, who is perceived as a symbol or a form actually has no shape. It is for our own convenience and our means of relating to God that we, as human beings, have given the Almight shape and gender. For us to gain happiness in the Real sense, we have to nurture the soul till such time we are able to touch the Supreme Soul or God. He is there, always present in the Inner Temple of Silence, that is our heart and asks for nothing more than Love. Once ,one realizes this, this Call of the Soul beckons him to be united with the Almighty through Yoga. Yoga means to unite and by practicing which one becomes gradually freed from his attraction towards material enjoyment and is attracted instead to the Supreme Soul.

When we mention Yoga in today’s world , images of various postures conjures up in our mind. However, yoga is much more than this. Through this method sense control and self control is achieved. Only by regular practice of meditation self-realization and a lasting experience of inner happiness can be obtained. Guru or the dispeller of darkness comes forward here.

Lucky are those whose Souls have been beckoned at the Call of the Supreme Power to spread the message of peace and love. In a world where weapons are created to destroy masses, diseases spread everywhere, international terrorism rising by leaps and bounds with every passing day, communal riots, we all need to strive for World Peace. This can be possible if only we build relations based on true faith and confidence in each other.

Often it has been perceived that Time has healed those relations which due to circumstances had drifted apart. But it takes both the human beings involved in a particular relation to withstand the test of time and re-join their threads of amity. Patience and Perseverance are the Key ingredients to a successful relation on earth. Unfortunately many of us do not pay heed to such little but important aspects which a  relationship requires to nurture. Giving each other respect as a human being and space for growth is very necessary. Just as a plant is nurtured with utmost care , a relationship also needs the same  amount of nurturing for sustenance. For it is then when we can live in peace and harmony.

Those relations with whom we are connected by birth or come across by means of social/legal attachments are always there…………..yet, somehow I find that those relations which need the loving care and respect which they have been deprived of are the ones that require our attention. For example the under privileged, people in old age homes or children in orphanages. When we empathise with them, we become a part of themselves ….. CARE & ENCOURAGEMENT to move on in life by helping them lead better lives. A lot many I am sure will agree to the fact that it is our moral duty to encourage humanity thus supporting a good cause. Care inspires and gently reassures us. Lending us a feeling of security and support it reinforces our connection with others. Not only is it one of the best things we can do for our health but it feels good whether we are giving or receiving it.

I end this note with my heartfelt gratitude towards the Almighty to have given me the opportunity to share my thoughts with you friends. God Bless You. May You find Peace & Contentment in Life.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Creativity


How will you define creativity? Is it something that is purely genetic or is it something one learns as we grow up ? We must first have a good understanding in a nutshell as to what CREATIVITY is all about .

Creativity is the ability to produce something new through imaginative skill, whether a new solution to a problem, a new method or device, or a new artistic object or form. The term generally refers to a richness of ideas and originality of thinking. Motivation plays a crucial role in the creative process. It is not enough to have unusually high levels of skill or a deep conceptual understanding.



At this point or juncture I choose not to elaborate further on making this issue a boring affair by giving you  Lecture [lol !!!!] on Creativity. Rather I would lay emphasis on the part that is associated with it and that is the Well Being of the individual. When Motivation is THE THEME of this blog then may I assure you that Creativity is the ideal manner which keeps one motivated ! 

Having the ability to come up with creative ideas can help you each and every day with all of the following:
• Solve everyday problems more efficiently and effectively.
• Turn problems into opportunities.
• Find new ways of doing things.
• Find creative ways to generate more income.
• Create new products, processes, and services.
• Become indispensable to your organization.
• Develop the ability to make do with whatever is at hand to reach your goals.
• Generate ideas for artistic pursuits such as writing, drawing, composing, photography, and so on.
• Find unexpected ways to resolve conflicts.
• Lead a more fulfilling life by being “a creator”.
Obviously you can take the help of certain books written by experienced people in order to enhance whatever is your capability as one always is not sure about his or her own innate positive  capabilities. 
At www.amazon.com you will find books which help you reach your levels. One such is 

“How to Be More Creative – A Handbook for Alchemists”: Your Guide to Leading a More Creative Life

by Marelisa Fabrega ; 

apart from this you will also find several books in www.pustakmahal.com which can act as a guide to enhance your capabilities and get the most out of Life. :)

After all being engaged in work or anything which will bring happiness to you or to your family and friends definitely contributes in everyone's well being.



Friday, November 12, 2010

http://thisshouldhelp.net/

Its all a question of belief

Scientology is a body of beliefs and related practices created by L. Ron Hubbard (1911–1986), starting in 1952, as a successor to his earlier self-help system,Dianetics .Dianetics is a set of ideas and practices regarding the metaphysical relationship between the mind and body  and are practised by followers of Scientology. Hubbard coined Dianetics from the Greek stems dia, meaning through, and nous, meaning mind.


Dianetics explores the existence of a mind with three parts: the conscious "analytical mind," the subconscious "reactive mind", and the somatic [soma in Greek means body & this is the mind that is related to the body] mind. The goal of Dianetics is to remove the so-called "reactive mind" that scientologists believe prevents people from becoming more ethical, more aware, happier and saner. The Dianetics procedure to achieve this is called "auditing". Auditing is a process whereby a series of questions are asked by the Scientology auditor, in an attempt to rid the auditee of the painful experiences of the past which scientologists believe to be the cause of the "reactive mind".Dianetics uses a counseling technique known as auditing, developed by Hubbard to enable conscious recall of traumatic events in an individual's past.Scientology beliefs revolve around the Thetan, the individualized expression of the cosmic source, or life force, named after the Greek letter theta (θ).The thetan is the true identity of a person – an intrinsically good, omniscient, non-material core capable of unlimited creativity.


 There are various methods by which you can deal through stress and other problems which one usually can not tackle without a guideline. For example the method as mentioned above or by Past Life Regression Therapy as practised by many in various parts of India as well as abroad.  This was founded by Dr Brian Weiss, a psychotherapist who practises in  Miami, South Florida. Many Lives Many Masters is the true story of a psychiatrist, his ’extraordinarily attractive’ young patient who worked as a lab technician in his hospital and the PAST LIFE THERAPY that changed both of their worlds.

Past life regression is an accepted practice in the west and you can find hundreds of centres and practitioners in all major cities.Universally the doctors & human race at large are now slowly accepting that one has to heal the mind also along with the body to bring about desired process of healing. 

Let me ask you a question .What will be your reaction when you regress and realise that you had lived earlier and will live again after death? 
I think, some may become more reckless! After all this is not the only life I have, the thought will cross the mind  and also that  this is not the end!  While on the other hand, some may become more responsible when they realise that everything you do is being accounted for & that whatever you do now will have its implications in next life.

Many Lives, Many Masters is an interesting book. Since it is written by a prominent psychiatrist, and is based on true case observations, it becomes more acceptable while intriguing.  For people who are interested in exploring "life after death "theories, it offers some fascinating facts. 
Though there are many books, which may discuss this subject, but Dr. Brian Weiss has taken us as close to the truth as possible through his main character, Catherine. Catherine has everything one could want from life - a good husband, happy family , and yet, she finds herself getting depressed, not exactly knowing the reason, why. She begins to withdraw from her surroundings, struggling with her inner demons and finally, by the time she reaches Dr. Weiss for treatment, she is a wreck.
 
Intrigued, Dr Weiss turns to hypnosis to help Catherine understand the reason of her traumas. It is then, based on what Catherine reveals in the subliminal state of her session, is what shocks Dr. Weiss and us, readers too. It sounds so unbelievable and yet, it can't be a fallacy, for Catherine is not even aware she spoke what she did till Dr. Weiss plays the tape for her to work out if she can connect all that with her present in anyway. The subsequent hypnotic sessions reveal deeper mysticism that exists in this world or should I say the other world. Whatever conclusion or should I say, thought provoking beginning, each individual will draw from this book, one thing is true-it sure is based on the facts and not a fabrication weaved out of the author's imagination, and that is the selling point of this book. 

Here I would like to add my personal  viewpoint about this book 

Am sure, many  have heard of Patanjali. The concept of Past Life Therapy is as old as Patanjali’s YOGA DARSHAN which was written around the 4th century BC.He talks about the soul(CHITTA) being burdened with the   impressions or samskaras of karmas from previous births.I would like to mention about one more timeless treasure of our country , the book "Bhagavadgita", which also tells you that your soul leaves this body and accepts another body just as you shed old clothes to wear fresh ones.! 







These are just a few examples to show that we are much more than a body . Basically it is the concept of Karma which I am emphasizing. In this Life or the past which ever you choose to believe the discretion is your's entirely. On a different note, if you want to pick up the strewn parts of your life and gather them in one stream    you better start acting on it from NOW. 

There is no time other than NOW, according to me. If there was a past in which you or I have made mistakes, suffered, then , it is time to LET GO of it and begin AFRESH. 

EMBARK ON A JOURNEY CALLED LIFE REPLETE WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND IDEAS. Its not every day that one comes across a person or experiences something inspiring. Self Inspiration is what I believe in and I promise you, each one of us can do this, provided we WANT TO ! 
These are just a few examples to show that we are much more than a body . Basically it is the concept of Karma which I am emphasizing. In this Life or the past which ever you choose to believe the discretion is your's entirely. On a different note, if you want to pick up the strewn parts of your life and gather them in one stream    you better start acting on it from NOW. 

There is no time other than NOW, according to me. If there was a past in which you or I have made mistakes, suffered, then , it is time to LET GO of it and begin AFRESH. 

EMBARK ON A JOURNEY CALLED LIFE REPLETE WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND IDEAS. Its not every day that one comes across a person or experiences something inspiring. Self Inspiration is what I believe in and I promise you, each one of us can do this, provided we WANT TO ! 




PART 4

Freedom and Free Will
It's because we are so trapped in our culture, in the being of being human on this planet with the brains we have, and the same two arms and legs that everybody else has. We're so trapped that any way we could imagine to escape would be just another part of the trap.  Anything we want, we're trained to want."  [my emphasis]......Chuck Palahnniuk
Between two clouds there is an interval and that interval is the sky.  Between our thoughts there is also an interval and that is our own Consciousness, a consciousness that never sleeps.  By giving more value to the intervals than the thoughts we can slow down the thoughts, let our attention rest in the intervals and discover our Freedom.
Within the world of thought and the world of form that thoughts picture, there appears to be billions of choices we could make, but what we see as choice is an illusion.  Is it really a choice when our minds appear to tell us what to think and do?  This is not freedom but entrapment.  Freedom comes from turning our attention to the Presence that is aware of all our wayward thoughts (as we just did in the experiment) and follow that instead..... to do this is to follow our own Free Will.
A cloud does not know why it moves in just such a direction and at such a speed.  It feels an impulsion...... this is the place to go now.  But the sky knows the reasons and the patterns behind all clouds, and you will know too, when you lift yourself high enough to see beyond horizons"........Richard Bach.